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Tamara Thomas

Author's details

Name: Tamara Thomas
Date registered: January 12, 2011
URL: http://www.wherethereislife.com
Yahoo! IM: thinksfunny

Biography

Born in Sun Valley, Idaho, Tamara Thomas moved to Arizona in 1980. She has lived and worked in the Wickenburg area for the last 11 years, and has spent the last eight years working at the Wickenburg Sun newspaper. Tamara was educated at Reed College, Vanderbilt University and the University of Arizona. As well as being editor at The Sun, she is a professional artist with local murals on display in downtown Wickenburg and in many private homes and businesses throughout the west, as well as canvases that she shows and sells both locally and nationally. Upon the loss of her only child in 2008, she underwent profound personal changes. Some of those changes produced a few good things: She helped found the $3,000 Abigail Garcia memorial scholarship for local graduating high school seniors; she founded a local mentoring group for at-risk high school students; she adopted a grade-school student from foster care – her second beloved daughter Tina; and she started a blog about grief, organ donation, adoption and related interwoven topics with the desire to benefit others experiencing similar changes. Tamara can be reached through The Wickenburg Sun; by mail at PO Box 86, Wickenburg AZ 85358; through her website www.WhereThereIsLife.com, or via email at tam@wherethereislife.com.

Latest posts

  1. Five years ago today — May 21, 2013
  2. Donate blood, donate life — March 8, 2013
  3. Dancing again – my path to (almost) happy — March 8, 2013
  4. Turning a page within the same book — October 12, 2012
  5. School begins; I watch my children grow — August 8, 2012

Most commented posts

  1. Grief Journal No. 1 (6/1/08) — 16 comments
  2. Get over grief, have a ‘replacement child’! I don’t think so…. — 8 comments
  3. Carl Zimmer, science, philosophy, a tattoo, and love — 5 comments
  4. Teaching teens to drive – a struggle on many levels — 4 comments
  5. Donate Life! More on my deceased daughter and organ donation — 4 comments

Author's posts listings

May 21

Five years ago today

Five years ago today… Five years ago, at 7:30 a.m., I hugged my daughter and told her to drive safely. “Ok Mom. See you at lunch time!” Five years ago, at 11:00 a.m., two DPS officers came to my work with “something important to talk to me about, regarding my daughter.” Five years ago, at …

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Mar 08

Donate blood, donate life

Donate blood lately? I had the honor, if not pleasure, of donating blood recently when the Red Cross Bloodmobile visited our office complex. While there was a good, steady stream of donors, most people in our building did not participate. Why? Well, of course there are many reasons people cannot donate, and the questionnaire for …

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Mar 08

Dancing again – my path to (almost) happy

dancing

In the months following my daughter’s death, I received many “gifts.” One gift came unexpectedly about four months after the accident. It was a letter from one of her classmates that included a hand-written “prayer” Ava had created for the classmate’s art project. On the small, brightly colored square of fabric were inked the words, …

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Oct 12

Turning a page within the same book

I woke up this morning – as many mornings – with you on my mind. It’s been four and a half years since you left me. Four-plus years of heartache and struggle; 54 months of missing you so badly it hurts; lifetimes and ages since I saw the sparkling eyes, heard the infectious laugh, felt …

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Aug 08

School begins; I watch my children grow

family

School starts today, and parents throughout the area are breathing a sigh of relief as the familiar routine begins again. Summer, for parents of younger children, often means a long string of camps – here they are Camp Imagination, town-sponsored activities camps, Science Camp (hopefully again next year), Music Camp, swim lessons, volleyball and basketball …

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Jun 08

Graduation, Memorial Day connect in mixed emotions

Gathering fallen caps after the traditional cap-toss

Two very special dates occurred recently – graduation of the class of 2012 on Friday (May 25), and Memorial Day last Monday (May 28) – one a joyous celebration of accomplishment, the other a heartfelt tribute to tremendous loss. I attended graduation last Friday; once again a proud mother watched her daughter cross the stage …

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Apr 13

Time to die, Part 3: There is a season

Back in August I wrote about a near-miss with my oldest dog. I had thought it might be time to put her to sleep, but fortunately I was wrong…. then. She had been struggling with all sorts of weird health symptoms for months. Late last fall we discovered she had diabetes. After changing her diet, …

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Mar 06

Another mother grieves

A grieving community...

Our little town – and the world – has suffered the loss of another remarkable young lady, and another mother has joined the most horrible club on earth: the club of grieving parents. I am so very sorry for this woman whom I have never met. She lives in my town. Her daughter was friends …

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Dec 29

Christmas and grief – expressing the inexpressible

    Written at Christmas, 2010 ‘Spilling over’ is bound to happen. The Christmas season has arrived, and with it all the emotions entangled therein. I have always loved Christmas. Since I was a small child and watched my mother carefully trim the fresh tree that my father had cut the day before. Christmas is …

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Dec 14

No maps to traverse landscape of grief

(Written in 2008) Six months ago, I lost my only child to a fatal car accident. She would have turned 19 last September, and I would be planning her visit home from college this Christmas, if that one moment in time had not occurred. Christmastime! Normally, Abigail and I would be chatting on the phone …

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